Ladies (and gentlemen), the sexual revolution is fully underway, yet some of us are still a little shy about making that first big sex toy purchase. Of course, it’s totally understandable  — buying your first vibrator or bedroom toy can be intimidating and the first time you decided to browse an online adult store you no doubt found yourself wondering; “where on earth does that go?” And, don’t even get us started on trying to decipher which toy is right for your needs, especially when you realise just how many options there are. But, don’t let the doubt stop you from enjoying the pleasures of a sex toy by yourself or with your partner at home. Trust us, most toys are far less complicated than they look, and once you get one (and love it), you’ll wonder what you were stressing about. If you’re not sure where to start here are 5 of the best starter toys for beginners.

These toys are perfect to start your sex toy collection – they’re beautiful, sexy, easy to use, and will bring you pleasure for a long time to come. Pick your favourites and get started on your intimate adventures!

Take it Slow with ZaZaZu Feather Handcuffs

ZaZaZu Feather Handcuffs

If you’re new to bringing toys and accessories into the bedroom then it’s important to remember to allow yourself to take it slow. These beautiful and oh-so-sexy feather handcuffs are a great way to dip your toe into the world of sex toys with your partner. Metallic chain links and soft, fluffy feathers make these erotic handcuffs the perfect combo of kinky and cosy and there’s not much to figure out before you can start using them.

Available online from Matilda’s at R 414 – click here to buy it now.

Keep it Simple with a Vibrating Bullet

vibrating bullet by Fifty Shades of Grey

If you’re looking for something simple to use all on your own, or with your partner then this ‘We Aim to Please’ vibrating bullet by Fifty Shades of Grey is the perfect fit. The clitoral vibrator is part of the Official Fifty Shades of Grey Pleasure Collection as approved by E.L James and is all about simple pleasures. It’s a great starter vibrator for beginners and won’t scare the bejesus of out of you when you take it out of the box for the first time.

Available online from Matilda’s at R 295 – click here to buy it now.

Be Discreet with this Duckie Vibrator

I Rub My Paris Duckie vibrator from Big Teaze Toys

Yes, that is a rubber duckie and no it’s not for children. Bring some style and seDucktion into the bedroom with the I Rub My Paris Duckie vibrator from Big Teaze Toys. This discreet little number is elegantly bedazzling with a removable feather boa and a genuine Swarovski crystal in the beak. But, don’t let its somewhat small size fool you, the luxury waterproof adult playmate has very strong vibrations, with many hidden sensual talents.

Available online from Matilda’s at R 884 – click here to buy it now.

Don’t Break the Bank with this Kinky Dice Game

Dice game

If you want to play around a bit before splurging on something big and more exciting then you can’t go wrong with this super affordable Kinky Dice Game. This sexy game promises super-sized fun – no matter what you roll – and is a great way to introduce a little bit of fun to the bedroom with your partner.

Available online from Matilda’s at R 164 click here to buy it now.

Go All Out with a Bedroom Bliss Kit for Beginners

Bedroom Bliss Kit from Matildas

Try a little bit of everything with the Bedroom Bliss Kit from Matildas. The perfect for beginners kit contains a clitoral vibrator, clitoral stimulation gel, cock ring and lubricant to help you on your pleasure journey. Whether you want to share it with your partner or keep it all to yourself, this kit if a must-have for those who don’t where to start.

Available online from Matilda’s at R 2,714 –  click here to buy it now.

Matilda’s is the longest-running and largest online adult store in South Africa. With a wide selection of sex toys, lingerie, and intimate accessories it’s easy to see why they’re South Africa’s favourite. The chic online store offers men and women a discreet, convenient, and classy place to shop for all their sexy and sassy needs and we love them for it. With FREE shipping on orders over R745 and 100% discreet overnight parcel delivery in main centres on business days, they’ll get it to you faster than a toupee in a hurricane.

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