Amp Up Your Sex Life With These Sizzling Strategies
Many people are looking to spice up their sex lives, with a new study revealing that South Africa ranked third globally for the highest number of Google searches for sex toys. As couples are becoming more sexually adventurous, many have invested in their first sex toys, and have introduced these intimate props into their bedrooms, and many women feel a sense of empowerment through this. But you don’t need to stop there – apart from using vibrators, feathered handcuffs and sexy lingerie, keep your man on his toes and surprise him with these sizzling sex strategies.
Not quite ready for a threesome? Use a sex doll
The idea of a threesome can be thrilling, but if you’re not quite ready to have another person in your bed, why not try using a sex doll? According to ewsingles, using silicone or realistic sex dolls allows you to shed your inhibitions in a safe way. As threesomes often come with risks, incorporating a sex doll into your sexual repertoire allows you to experience the fantasy of a threesome without the consequences. You can have a male or a female sex doll and use them accordingly depending on your mood.
Including role play in your use of a doll can be empowering. To have a “threesome” with a sex doll, you and your partner can create a fantasy scenario beforehand – perhaps you’re a successful business woman who met two attractive people at a conference and you want to bring them to your hotel room, so in this case, the two will be the sex doll and your partner. Before you start, play some sexy music, get into character, and incorporate other toys into your role play for a more satisfying experience. Don’t hesitate to use the doll to pleasure yourself, and let your imagination run wild during your simulated threesome.
Take it out of the bedroom
Your bedroom isn’t the only place where you and your partner can get frisky. Once in a while, take it out of the bedroom and explore places in your home where you can do it. Of course, ensure that no one else is around and shut the drapes before you attempt this – there’s nothing worse than being caught mid-coitus by your child or by a neighbour. Try having sex in the living room or the bathroom. If both of you are up to a challenge, see if you can have a quickie in some of the most unexpected places, like the garden shed, the stairs, inside a closet, or in the basement, perhaps atop your washing machine while it’s still running. Not only is this a great way to add some variety to your sex life, but you’re sure to get closer as you’re guaranteed to have lots of laughs talking about it later.
Master the art of sexting
Perhaps you’ve stopped sending naked pictures to each other months or years ago. But that shouldn’t stop you from using your smartphones to level up your sex life. Send your partner some sexy messages throughout the day, and make sure to be specific and describe what you plan to do to him once he gets home. This will heighten anticipation of your time together and make sex a lot more exciting, and it can be empowering to see the effect you have on your partner.
Adding variety to your sexual repertoire can bring you and your partner much closer together. Give these sizzling strategies a go and bring the fun back into your sex life today.